Honeymoon

DO NOT Say These 3 Things On Your Wedding Night

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It doesn’t matter how long a couple may have been together before they finally got married, they always look forward to their wedding night. Maybe to bask in the euphoria of finally being together forever. Maybe to celebrate their love together. Again. Alone. It could be anything. It’s definitely different strokes for different folks.

In all the excitement and happiness, there are some things your partner definitely doesn’t want to hear on your wedding night.

1. One More E-mail, Please

You have a lifetime to face work, if you ask me, you may spend more time working than you will with your partner.

Save this day for both of you. If possible, try to clear your desk or find someone who will help out, even if it’s just for that night.

2. My Ex said

Yes…Yes, you are married now. She’s all yours. He is all yours but doesn’t entirely wipe out all insecurities. If it’s important to talk about your ex some other day, not that night.

3. We Should Have…

…We should have nothing. It doesn’t have to be perfect. Just relax and enjoy your partner’s company. No need to fuss about anything and ruin your night.

No two marriages or relationships are the same but generally, you know what you would not want to hear when spending quality time with your partner.

You deserve an amazing time with the love of your life. Endeavour to enjoy it.

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Honeymoon

These 7 Lingerie Ideas That Will Leave Him Dazed On Your Wedding Night

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Lingerie is derived from an old french word, ‘Linge’ meaning linen.

Lingerie is made of lightweight, stretchy, smooth, sheer or decorative fabrics such as silk, satin, lycra, charmeuse, chiffon or (especially and traditionally) lace.

These fabrics can be made of natural fibres like silk or cotton or of synthetic fibres like polyester or nylon. They are perfect undergarments for a wedding night.

One of the highlights of the wedding night or honeymoon is the bride rocking ideal lingerie for her man. Shopping for a nice and ideal lingerie may be almost as hectic as shopping for a wedding gown.

If your honeymoon is around the corner and you intend to strutt your stuff in front of him, then this is for you.

1. Lady In Red 

Red and lace are the perfect fit to getting your man’s undivided attention.

2. Teddy Lingerie

This looks like a bathing suit but it’s a short night gown that just falls past the waist.

3. Chemise

Chemise looks good on any body size. It’s a night gown with lots of lace and thin straps.

4. Lacy Negligee

Yearning to rock something free that night? No need for tees and baggy shorts. Just slip into a sexy negligee.

5. Garter Belts

Suspenders or suspender belts, also known as “garter belts” in the USA, are an undergarment consisting of an elasticated material strip usually at least 2 to 3 inches (5.1 to 7.6 cm) in width; it can be wider.

You can easily achieve a naughty girl look with these.

6. Robe

Robes are just right to clad on your wedding night. They ooze sexiness and style.

7. Boyshort Panties

Boyshort panties are comfy and totally sexy.

Certain colours like black, red and white go a long way too. You can never go wrong in these jaw-dropping lingerie ideas on your honeymoon.

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Planning

5 Reasons Your Bridal Shower Should Be As Memorable As Your Wedding

A bridal shower is a gift-giving party held for a bride-to-be in anticipation of her wedding according to Wikipedia. The custom originated in the 1890s and is today most common in the United States and Canada.

It’s the bride’s last day as a single girl and her friends (married or unmarried) ensure she has the best time of her life. Most brides do the craziest things on their  bridal shower to make it exceptional and unforgettable.

The first wedding shower can be traced back to a Dutch story of a young girl who fell in love with a poor miller. Her father was not pleased with his daughter’s choice and refused to bestow a dowry (a sum of money and/or goods) necessary for the couple to set up a household.

The miller was a generous man who had shared his possessions and helped several villagers who had fallen on hard times. When the villagers found out the bride’s father refused to bestow a dowry on the newlyweds, they came together and ‘showered’ the couple with gifts so they could establish a home together.

Hen’s night, bachelorette party are sometimes referred to as bridal shower.

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Here are 5 reasons you should have an exceptional bridal shower.

1. Closure

Your bachelorette will let you make peace with the fact that you are closing an old chapter of your life and starting an entirely different one.

2. Bonding

No matter how chummy you are with your girls, ‘hanging with the girls’ is never the same when you become Mrs Somebody. It’s only fair that you enjoy these last moments as a single woman with them.

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3. Confirmation

As much as nobody prays this happens, your bachelorette helps you reflect if you made the right choice or not. 😉

4. Intimacy

Most brides usually have cold feet before their wedding. Being with your girls on this night can be somewhat therapeutic as you can share your fears and anxieties with them.

5. Fun

Unwinding is everything! Something to take your mind off the wedding tension et al. Dancing, getting crazy and laughing out loud with your girls is the best antidote.

It’s your wedding eve and your last official party as a single lady. Have all the fun you can. You deserve it!

 

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