Most times people use the words ‘chief bridesmaid’ and ‘maid of honor’ interchangeably but research has proven that the former is a generic term for two different phrases.
The Chief Bridesmaid is traditionally known as the Maid of Honour (if the girl is unmarried) or Matron of Honour (if the girl is married).
Basically, the chief bridesmaid is the bride’s right hand on her wedding day.
Regardless of what you may call it, choosing a chief bridesmaid is equally as important as any of your wedding plans. If you are wondering whom to pick between your sisters and your friends. Maybe even that chummy cousin, these tips would help you.
1. Capability
Your friend may have your best interest at heart and yet may not be organized enough to carry out a chief bridesmaid duty. On the other hand, you may have a not-so-crowd-friendly pal who would not want to take that spot on your big day. Either way, you should know your girls and be certain who can do what.
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2. Interest
As mentioned above, be sure your friend really wants to do it (like totally excited) before you assign her the task of being your chief bridesmaid and she feels roped in. No bride wants a surly chief bridesmaid.
3. Clarity
You should let your chief bridesmaid know what you require of her on the D-day. No assumptions whatsoever.
4. Reliability
She must be someone you can easily rely on. She should not only be an assistant but also a willing confidant – just in case you feel overwhelmed. It’s always good to know there is someone that you can count on.
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5. Intuition
Half the time your intuition is more accurate than you can ever imagine. So, if you are pondering who to make your chief bridesmaid between your sisters, friends and colleagues who have ticked all the right boxes then follow your intuition. You may not be disappointed.
A chief bridesmaid is highly important on your wedding day. Ensure you make the right choice.
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